I think you need to expand your friendlist, check the enemy gimmick (you can check it from main quest list), and maybe your servants skill. Trying for 2 days only with conclusion of borrowing gil is kinda weird.
Even if you can not add them as friend, you can follow them too. L120/NP5/A10 with MLB BG is common. Actually, borrowing that kind of dps and improve your own free support like hans, martha, nightingale, da vinci and waver (if you chose him for free ssr) can help to clear it faster. For that quest kagekiyo or lilith can easily mini turn.
Check gimmick and servant skill. If you want to challange main quest without relaying to "cheat" support, at least learn what enemy can do. Watching video is good, but there is no fix strategy to clear it, so you may improve it with "what can your servants do". If i'm not wrong, you have lilith right?