Thread:Hyocaso/@comment-28818979-20160818071456/@comment-28048698-20170420222818

I am back. And WOW, a lot of things happened while I was sleeping. D: Welcome, Stray Bird, Shikifan and Valeth!

I think I can understand how you feel, Minami. And let me tell you once thing: if you really, really want to go somewhere else, work in another country, and have another type of life, don't give up, Make plans to do it. At least that is what I do with my... How is the name? My life project.

For years I've ben planning my life. Not all, but the important things. Where I want to live, what kind of job I want, etc. Obviously, my plans didn't go as planned. I wasn't able to finish my carreer, wasn't able to move to Uruguay when I wanted, and even lost my most valuable relationship with the girl that I loved most. But here I am, still trying all those things, planing how to fix things (fix everything). I don't know if I'm explaining myself. xD It's hard to explain those things when you can't use the idiom at 100%.

But don't give up and don't lose your hope, friend! I'm sure you will succeed if you keep trying.

I don't think the marriage is a scam, Hikaru. >_< But I think "platonic" marriage that society want us to believe is a scam. I mean... In my humble opinion, marriage isn't a requirement to love someone, to live with someone, or to have a family with someone. The same way to be girlfriend/boyfriend of someone isn't the requirement to love that person. But the society want it to be that way.

I think those things have a deep meaning. Their value isn't because they are requirement, it is because their meaning. Maybe I'm too romantic, or maybe it's because I'm not married, but I think to ask marriage to someone (or to accept) is to say that person "I'm sure you are the one and only one that I love, and the one that I want by my side". It's a gesture. The same way you ask someone to be your girlfriend/boyfriend not because it's the protocol, but because you want to show him/her that gesture.

But as everything in life, we are humans and we can make mistakes. We may want to have by our side someone who doesn't feel the same way, or someone who we don't know very well, or someone who isn't like we thought it was. But not because sometimes go wrong it's a scam, I think. Otherwise, the job is a scam, the studies are a scam. The whole life is a scam, because sooner or later it goes wrong and very different of what we were planning.

But, once again, that's only my opinion, and I'm a very romantic person so it's normal for me to think like that. xD

By the way, telling us that kind of curious, masochistic, yandere way of life, I must agree with the others saying that I can see you like another Kirei. XD Maybe not 100%, but 80% instead.